Life Advice

Act like the person you want to become.

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You've probably heard the phrase: "Fake it ‘til you make it."

I agree with this advice but with one caveat: Don’t fake the superficial stuff. Fake the meaningful stuff.

Don’t fake the money.
Don’t fake the accomplishments.
Don’t fake the ego.

This is a horrible waste of time and energy and it gets you nowhere. Instead...

Fake the consistency.
Fake the work ethic.
Fake the action.

For many things in life, pretending is just as good as the real thing. In fact, for some things the difference is indistinguishable…

Notes to Myself

Below is an ongoing list of advice I’ve compiled for myself in a note in my phone. I started writing it as a way to remember the things that have worked well for me in the past because I was tired of forgetting them, then having to rediscover them months or years later. The cycle would go something like this:

  • I’d find something that worked well for me -- a habit, a mindset, a food, anything.

  • I’d integrate it into my life for a while.

  • I’d eventually forget about it weeks or months later and would have to solve the same problem from scratch multiple times.

  • I’d eventually rediscover this thing that had helped me in the past and integrate it into my life once again.

This list covers various areas of my life and is somewhat random. It’s mostly unedited, except for clarity and (most) grammatical errors…

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6 Strategies for Dealing with Overthinking

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In this article, I look at overthinking (and its cousin, anxiety) from an evolutionary perspective and offer some practical strategies that have helped me deal with them more effectively.

As far as I can tell, overthinking is largely a modern problem. In evolutionary time, it’s only been a blink of an eye since we’ve mastered our environment to the extent that we have. Although there are many people who still face survival-related problems on a daily basis, most of us live in relative comfort compared to our hunter-gatherer ancestors.

One of the many unintended consequences of our massive ecological success as a species is that because it happened so quickly, our brains haven’t had a chance to adapt accordingly. As a result, we’re no longer certain what to worry about.

Our brains are still running the same “survival software” that helped keep us alive for millions of years. That software continues to look for problems, even when there are none…

The 4 Principles of Effective Learning

Being an effective learner means understanding information at multiple levels and being able to recall it at will in order to solve problems. Most of us aren’t taught the principles of effective learning in school. We are taught what to learn but not how to learn. In this post, I outline the 4 most important principles for remembering more of what you read.

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